My 18 year old daughter, Kelly, calls me in a panic.  Her ex best friend has text her because she’s heard rumors that she believes Kelly has been spreading about her.  She wants to come down from college and confront Kelly.  Kelly is upset because she says she hasn’t said a bad word to anyone about this girl and she feels extremely frustrated because she doesn’t know how to prove that she’s done nothing wrong.  I listen, as any good mom would do.  I allow a little silence after she finishes telling her side of the story, as any good ...