A goal is defined as the achievement towards which an endeavor is directed; an objective. Fairly self-explanatory and most people understand this concept. Yet, goals are also elusive for many people and that’s what we want to explore here. Why are simple concepts such as goals, goal setting, and goal achievement so elusive for so many? To answer this question, we must first explore the context in which a goal is set, and contrast that with the context in which it is set, by successful achievers from all walks of life. Many people have goals set for them by their family, employer, and other outside forces. In addition, it is ...

The first time I heard this statement was when I was newly in the post-divorce dating stage.  After numerous dates and very short relationships I met someone I connected with.  He was charismatic, funny, loved doing anything and everything, loved his children, showed an interest in mine and even talked about us getting married.  It seemed like everything was great but……..I just couldn’t put my finger on it.  I didn’t trust my intuition because I was previously married to an alcoholic who lied and manipulated in a way that had me thinking I couldn’t be feeling and thinking the things ...

If the recent economic challenges have left you wishing for a safe haven, please read this!!  Many of the “safe” jobs, relationships and habits that we have are exactly the situations that we need to change.  Complacency is a tempting habit and change is scary for most adults.  However, as Robin Sharma, says,” In the new world of business, the riskiest place you can be is trying to do the same things in the same way as you’ve always done them.  Few things are as foolish as hoping old behaviors will somehow present new results.”  Why is that? May I share ...